| Feature | FLR DD | BDSM D/s | Vanilla Relationship | | :--- | :--- | :--- | :--- | | Primary focus | Accountability & order | Erotic power exchange | Equality/negotiation | | Physical punishment | Corrective, non-sexual | Sensation play, sexualized | Absent | | Aftercare | Forgiveness & closure | Emotional reconnection | Not applicable | | Frequency | Scheduled & as-needed | Scene-based | Never | | Rule documentation | Written and tracked | Often verbal | Unwritten social norms |
A defining feature of FLR/DD is the of the dynamic. It isn't just about the act of discipline; it is about the structure surrounding it. This includes: flr domestic discipline